Benita Charles shares Singing Tips at Performing Arts School in Harlem!

Top of the world: It was so great to participate in the Career Day for the high school students at Urban Assembly School For The Performing Arts in Harlem! The students and staff was so gracious. I was so happy that I was able to answer their questions about singing, recording and songwriting. A special thanks to Paul and Martha La Pierre for recommending me for the event! It felt great to give back. Wishing the students much success!

Career Day at Urban Assembly School For The Performing Arts in Harlem: On the table I gave the students advice on life (Let The Journey Begin), My top 10 Singing Tips, I showed my video of Never Ever Give Up (which will premiere online in 2 days!!!) and postcards announcing the song. The students really loved my Top 10 Singing Tips!

Great day at The Career Day: It was so great to meet Kadijat! She's amazing! She was one of the panelists for the event.

For the kids: Career Day at Urban Assembly School For The Performing Arts in Harlem. It was so great sharing my singing tips with the students!

Singing Tips Live: Never Ever Give Up! MLK Day 2018!

Benita Charles Music in NYC

Thanks for joining me for another episode of Singing Tips Live! We discussed the importance of living your dreams and contributing to the world. We honor Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. on the contributions he made fighting social injustices. One person can make a difference and so can you!

NEVER EVER GIVE UP

I. What do you dream of doing?

• Do you know what you want to do in life? If so, are you doing it? 
• If not, what do you love to do? What do you do best?

II. Why should you pursue your dreams?

• You should pursue your dreams to make an impact on the world and leave a legacy
• It will fulfill your purpose in life (we are all unique and bring something special to the world
• The world needs what you have to offer

III. Why you should Never Ever Give Up?

• You won't get what you want if you give up
• You will grow along your journey and what you will gain is priceless
• It will be that much sweeter when you get it

IV. My Story (Benita Charles Music)

• I discovered my talent at an early age in grade school. I joined the children's choir and sang my first solo at 12 years old.  From that moment on, I've been singing ever since.  Over the years, I've sung and acted in school plays and musicals, studied voice (opera) in college, sang in club and event bands, did studio and session work, produced my own concerts and TV shows. I've gained a wealth of experience through the years.
• I've sung for free and I've gotten paid for it. I do it because I love it and it doesn't seem like work for me. 
• I am at home the most on stage or performing. It is the one thing in life I love I can do.
• As long as I have breath, I will sing.  I will always do this until I die. That's how much I love it and have to do it.

V.  One Person Can Make A Difference: The legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

          Today, we celebrate the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. on January 15, 2018.

• Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was a baptist minister and most visible spokesman and social activist, who led the Civil Rights Movement in the United States from the mid-1950s until his death by assassination in 1968. The tactics he used were non-violence and civil disobedience based on his Christian beliefs and inspired by non-violence activism of Mahatma Gandhi.
• He won the Nobel Peace prize in 1964 for combating racial inequality through nonviolent resistance. At age 35, he was the youngest man to have received the Nobel Peace Prize.
• Among his many efforts, Dr. King headed the Southern Christian Leadership Conference (SCLC).
• Through his activism and inspirational speeches, he played a pivotal role in ending legal segregation of African-American citizens in the US, as well as the creation of The Civil Rights Act of 1964 and The Voting Rights Act of 1965.

Sources: Wikipedia, biography.com

FB Live video:



https://youtu.be/wRpMA4LYhBk

The life & legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Merry Christmas from Benita Charles Music!

Merry Christmas!! On this Christmas Day, I'd like to wish you and yours a very special day of love, happiness, laughter, freedom and joy to last for eternity! Today is a gift. Let the spirit of Christmas fill your heart with love!

Thank you so much to all my fans for your continued support of my musical endeavors! I am so grateful for you!

Wishing you all the magic of the holiday! May your dreams come true!!

Much love,

Benita Charles Music

"Sharing love through music for your inspiration and entertainment!"

http://benitacharles.com

https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/benita-charles/id200276662

Singing Tips Live with Benita Charles: The Recap Show ("The Show") Part 1

Benita Charles in New York City

Singing Tips - Recap of "The Show" Part of Singing Tips 

(Part 1) 

I. Your Talent (the foundation)

1. Start learning songs
2. Warm up your voice
3. Prince Tribute (the ultimate artist)
4. Establish a rehearsal schedule
5. Build your repertoire
6. Take care of your voice
7. Share your gift to the world
8. Write your own songs
9. Find a certified voice teacher
10. Learn a musical instrument

II. Your Live Performance (experience)

11. Sing in front of an audience

12. Project your voice when you sing

13. How to handle technical difficulties and interruptions

14. Singing with live musicians vs. performances tracks 

15. Engage your audience

16. How to stay motivated when the going get tough

17. Equipment every singer should own

18. Performing with a live band

19. Always use a set list

20. Choose your song wisely (song choice)

III. Your Original Music (self-expression)

21. Write your own songs (original music)

22. Choose your song topic

23. Song structure

24. Music and lyrics

25. Elements of a hit song

26. How to conquer writer's block

27. Protect your songs (Copyright it)

28. 3 Key reasons why you should collaborate

29. Working with a producer

30. The recording process and completing your music

IV. Your Image (your calling card)

31. Image is everything

32. Self Image/Self Care

33. Your appearance

34. Effective communications

35. Your communication: your message

36. Your behavior (your reputation)

37. Your behavior (time management)

38. Your behavior (self discipline)

39. Your behavior (self confidence)

40. Your behavior (self esteem)

 *Experts of "The Show" Part:

Your Live Performance

• Minister Angela Williams
• Founder of A Girl and her Pearls
• Show aired September 10, 2016 (Singing Tip #19 - Set List) 

Your Original Music

• Azania Noah
• International recording artist/singer-songwriter/performer/teacher
• Show aired October 15, 2016 (Singing Tip #22 - Song Topic) 
• For more information, visit azania.com.

Your Image

• Roxie Seigle
• NY Stylist/Hair Designer
• Show aired March 4, 2017 (Finding Your Style)
• Contact Information: RSStylist@gmail.com

• Nadine Dillon
• DNadz Jewelry owner (Business sponsor)
•  Show aired March 4, 2017 (Finding Your Style)
•  For more information, visit dnadzjewelry.com

•  Jennifer Byers
• make-up artist/dancer (Bobby Brown Cosmetics rep)
•  Makeover at Blue Mercury Cosmetics - Tribeca NYC 
•  Show aired April 3, 2017 (Singing Tip #36 - Your reputation) 
•  For more information, visit http://bluemercury.com/

• Ed "Preachermann" Holley
• singer/songwriter/recording artist/performer (band: Preachermann and The Revival)
• Show aired March 15, 2017 (Singing Tip #37 - Time Management)
• For more information, visit http://www.facebook.com/Preachermannmusic/

• Carolyn Jones
• holistic health practitioner/author
• Show aired June 4, 2017 (Self Care for Artists)
• book: https://www.amazon.com/Pick-Your-Bed-Walk-Self-Care/dp/0997450193

• Paul and Martha La Pierre
• location scouts (Astoria, Queens / Socrates Sculpture Park)
• Show aired July 16, 2017 (Recap Show - Your Image, Part 2) 

 

 *Further details of the experts will be presented in Part 2 of "The Show" Recap show next week.
 Best wishes as you take your talent to the next level.

https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/benita-charles/id200276662

Live on Facebook:

https://youtu.be/Hq82zSQo-Xc 

Singing Tips Live: The Recap Show (Your Image) Part 2: Ask the Experts

The Experts of the Image Section for Singing Tips

 Singing Tips Live by Benita Charles

The Recap Show (Your Image): Ask the Experts  - Part 2

In this episode, we discussed all the experts who were kind enough to give of their time, knowledge and gifts to the audience as a compliment to the Image Section of singing tips.  We had some excellent experts who discussed fashion and style, time management and self care for artists. 

 Experts and Show Contributors:

•  Roxie Seigle (NY Stylist Extraordinaire) "How to Find Your Style" - show aired: 3/4/17
• contact information: Rsstylist@gmail.com

• Nadine Dillon (D-Nadz Jewelry), business sponsor & show contributor  -  show aired: 3/4/17
• contact information: http://www.dnadzjewelry.com/

• Jennifer Byers of Bobby Brown Cosmetics (Makeup Artist) of Blue Mercury Cosmetics NYC, show contributor - show aired: 4/3/17
• contact information: http://bluemercury.com

• Ed "Preachermann" Holley, show contributor  - show aired: 4/15/17
• contact information: https://www.facebook.com/Preachermannmusic/

• Carolyn Jones (Qi to Go Project) "Self-care for Artists" - show aired: 6/4/17 
• contact information:  http://www.facebook.com/Qi-to-Go-Project-728044133877988/
• book: http://www.amazon.com/Pick-Your-Bed-Walk-Self-Care/dp/0997450193

• Paul and Martha La Pierre, show contributors (new location: Socrates Sculpture Park, Astoria, Queens) - show aired:  7/16/17 

 

 Socrates Sculpture Park - Astoria, Queens (NYC)

Astoria, Queens

  1957 Corvette

 "A special thanks to all the experts who gave their time and such valuable information to my audience! You have truly made a huge impact to my show!! I've gotten the biggest reaction from the expert shows rather than any other show. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!" -- Benita Charles

Best wishes to you as you take your voice to the next level!

Much love,

Benita Charles Music

"Spreading love through music for your inspiration and entertainment!"

http://benitacharles.com
Blog: http://singingtipsbybcm.blogspot.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcmsings/
Email: singingtips.bcm@gmail.com

https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/benita-charles/id200276662

Full show available on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/wtP7jM8qrJM 


 Socrates Sculpture Park:

 https://youtu.be/mD_2AJbdauU


 

My Recording Experience by Benita Charles

Benita Charles in New York City

My Recording Experience by Benita Charles

I recently had a great recording session this past weekend. The song was great, the producer was engaging and had great ideas and my vocals were on.  It was truly amazing.

That hasn't always been the case. When I first started recording, I had a difficult time in the studio.
Because I started as a live performer, I was use to singing in front of an audience. In the studio, it was just me and a mic. I was out of my element and it was difficult at first.

I tried so hard and I over thought everything.  In turn, my recordings would turn out horrible.  Not to mention, some of the producers I was working with didn't know how to bring things out of me. It was not a good situation. My confidence and self esteem was wrecked.

One of the things that helped me was when I performed the song live first before I recorded it. It made all the difference in the world. In this case, I was able to experiment with the song first before I went to the studio. When I returned to the studio, recording was a breeze. This boosted my self confidence and raised my self esteem tremendously.

Benita Charles with super producer, Themi

Here are 3 top lessons I learned from recording:

1) Always be prepared
-- Know the song and make sure you are performance ready

2) Get out of your own head
-- Relax and take your time
-- Usually, the first few takes are the best

3) Never, ever give up
-- Keep up working at it, eventually you will get better
-- This will definitely improve your confidence in the matter

Best wishes as you take your music to the next level!

Much love,

Benita Charles Music

"Spreading love through music for your inspiration and entertainment!"

http://benitacharles.com

Blog: http://singingtipsbybcm.blogspot.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcmsings/

Email: singingtips.bcm@gmail.com

https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/benita-charles/id200276662

Facebook Live:

https://youtu.be/JaoYIU_5MSg

Singing Tips by Benita Charles - Tip #40

 Benita Charles in New York City

Singing Tips by Benita Charles - Tip #40

Your Image: Your Behavior

SELF-IMAGE/ SELF ESTEEM
"Self-esteem is the reputation we acquire with ourselves." -- Nathaniel Branden

"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are." -- Marilyn Monroe
"Never say anything about yourself you don't want to come true." -- Brian Tracy


In this episode, we discussed self image/ self esteem and how it affects your behavior in every aspect of your life. 

*Self image is the idea one has of one's abilities, appearance and personality. (Reference: Google)

*Self esteem reflects a person's overall subjective, emotional evaluation of his or her own worth.  It is important because it shows ourselves how we view the way we are and the sense of our personal value. It affects the way we are in the world and the way we act towards others. (Reference: Wikipedia)

Things that shaped self esteem:

Childhood
Experiences with family and friends
Work experiences
School/college experiences
Society (cultures/religion/race)


Here are 5 key ways to enhance your self esteem:

1) Love yourself
-- Be kind to yourself as you are to others
-- Accept yourself for who you are
-- Treat yourself to something nice (a nice bubble bath, a nature walk, etc.)

2) Take care of yourself
-- Your health is #1. You can't do anything if you're not healthy
-- maintain a healthy lifestyle: eat a nutritious meal/exercise/get plenty of rest/drink water

3) Give yourself a break
-- Practice positive self-talk (build yourself up)
-- Forgive yourself for your mistakes. Learn from them and move on

4) Schedule "Me Time" everyday
-- Ideally: 10 minutes first thing in the morning and 10 minutes in the evening before bed

5) Focus on your strengths, gifts and talents
-- Develop your talents and sharpen your skills
-- This will increase your self confidence and self esteem


Best wishes to you as you take your voice to the next level!

Much love,

Benita Charles Music

"Spreading love through music for your inspiration and entertainment!"

http://benitacharles.com

Blog: http://singingtipsbybcm.blogspot.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcmsings/

Email: singingtips.bcm@gmail.com

https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/benita-charles/id200276662

Facebook Live:

https://youtu.be/REJlhH9jrBchttps://youtu.be/REJlhH9jrBc 

Singing Tips Live by Benita Charles - Tip #39

Benita Charles in New York City

  Singing Tips by Benita Charles - Tip #39

Your Image: Your Behavior

SELF CONFIDENCE

"One important key to success is self-confidence. A key to self-confidence is preparation." -- Arthur Ashe

In this episode, we discussed self confidence in all you do in life. Self-confidence will set you a part and attract success to you.

*Self-confidence is a feeling of trust in one's abilities, qualities and judgement.

Self-confidence is a set of behaviors you can improve and it's built from the outside in. You can improve your self-confidence by changing your behavior.

Self-confidence should not be confused with self-esteem.

**Self Esteem is an evaluation of one's own self-worth. In other words, self-esteem is how we feel about ourselves (it's built from the inside out). Based on where you are in your self-esteem, it can take years to repair and improve.

I. Here are 3 key ways to enhance your self-confidence:

A) Look the part
 -- Always look your best
 -- When you look good, you feel good (buy a new dress or suit. Get a new hairstyle.)

C) Act the part
-- Make your presence known in every situation
-- The way you sit and stand speaks volumes: sit up straight and stand tall
-- Look people in the eye when speaking
-- Speak slowly and deliberately
-- Be assertive and self-assured, not timid

D) Know your stuff
-- Study your industry and gain the knowledge you need
-- Practice your speeches, presentations, songs to perfection (Practice makes perfect!)
-- When you know what you're doing and what you're saying, it automatically makes you more confident

II. Fake It Til You Make It

***The purpose of this phrase is that by imitating confidence, competence with an optimistic mindset, it can lead to the realization of that imitation in an individual's life. In other words, acting as something can lead to that something.

Aristotle once said: "To be virtuous one must act as a virtuous person would act."

**** I read an article from a coach, John Sannicandro and he said that he once worked part time in a psychiatric ward. He discovered that the patients did well when they were exposed to positive behaviors (such as bedtime curfew, mandatory group attendance and structure). He found that structure, behavior and routines are the best ways to create positive change. This can definitely apply to positive behaviors to enhance your self-confidence.

References:

* Source: dictionary.com
** Source: Wikileaks
*** Source: "Fake It Til You Make It" mindbodycoarch.org (John Sannicandro)
**** Source: "Fake It Til You Make It" mindbodycoarch.org (John Sannicandro)
http://mindbodycoach.org/fake-till-make/

Here's another great resource in terms of enhancing your self-confidence: "25 Killer Actions to Boost Your Self Confidence" by Leo Babauta (zenhabits.net).
https://zenhabits.net/25-killer-actions-to-boost-your-self-confidence/

Best wishes to you as you take your voice to the next level!

Much love,

Benita Charles Music

"Spreading love through music for your inspiration and entertainment!"

http://benitacharles.com

Blog: http://singingtipsbybcm.blogspot.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcmsings/

Email: singingtips.bcm@gmail.com

 https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/benita-charles/id200276662

Facebook Live:

https://youtu.be/LMddw4ZEH0s

Singing Tips Live by Benita Charles - Tip #38

 Benita Charles in New York City

 Singing Tips by Benita Charles - Tip #38

Your Image: Your Behavior (Self-Discipline)

"Do what you gotta do so that you can do what you want to do." -- Edgar Holley, Sr.

In this episode, we discussed self-discipline in terms forming successful habits for success. Self-discipline is one for the keys to success.

Growing up, I've always been a child who loved to play first (pleasure before pain). This has carried through my adult life.  It hasn't worked out too good.  It has lead to missed deadlines, missed opportunities and unnecessary stress. I've decided self-discipline is something I'd like to improve and master.

Here are 3 key ways to improve your self-discipline muscle:

1) Make a list of things that need to be done for the day

     -- Prioritize your list to the top 3 things that need to be done

2) Do the one thing from your priority list that will make the most impact on your life

    -- This will leave you with more time to do the things you want to do

3) Do it even when you don't feel like it (this is the key to self-discipline)

     -- This is the most difficult thing to do and this is the heart of mastering self-discipline.

      -- If you can push through those times when you don't feel like it, success is on the other side.

     -- Sometimes you need a swift kick in the rear-end to get the party started. Get it done!

Best wishes to you as you take your voice to the next level!

Much love,

Benita Charles Music

"Spreading love through music for your inspiration and entertainment!"

http://benitacharles.com

Blog: http://singingtipsbybcm.blogspot.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcmsings/

Email: singingtips.bcm@gmail.com

 https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/benita-charles/id200276662

Singing Tips Live on Facebook:

https://youtu.be/YIsg576jusk  

 A special thanks to all my fans for your support!!

Singing Tips Live by Benita Charles - Tip #37

 Benita Charles in New York City

 Singing Tips by Benita Charles - Tip #37

Your Image: Your Behavior (Time Management)

It is imperative that artists are on time for their obligations and events. This will project a professional image and ensure more work. This week's topic is time management.

In this episode, we had a special guest contributor, Ed "Preachermann" Holley. He has a great sense of time that dates back to childhood.  He was an athlete throughout his youth and adult life (baseball & football). His father was a football player and coach and instill great values of line in him. One of the things his father use to say has stayed with him throughout his life:
"Do what you gotta do so that you can do what you want to do."

Here are some key time management points from Preachermann:

*He's known by his friends and people who work with him as someone who is always early.

*He give himself time for "life" (train delays, wardrobe mishaps, traffic). This leads to less stress.

*He arrives at his gigs 2 hours in advance (this allows him to prepare equipment/solve any venue difficulties, sound check, etc). Whatever the issue, he's there to address it early.

* He allows time 10 - 15 minutes before he goes on stage to "center" himself.

A special thanks to Ed "Preachmann" Holley for the valuable information he shared with us!

About Preachermann:

Preachermann is a recording artist/dynamic live performer who performs with his band, Preachermann and The Revival throughout the New York City area. For more information, visit: https://www.facebook.com/Preachermannmusic/.

 Singing Tips by Benita Charles - Tip #37

On this episode on Singing Tips Live, we discussed ways to improve time management.

Effective time management as it affects your image and reputation.

"How you do anything, is how you do everything." -- Martha Beck

3 key ways to improve your time management skills:

A) Commit

*Make a commitment with yourself that you will improve your time and you will improve your time.


B) Prepare (Plan...Plan...Plan)

*Always use a calendar to keep up with your obligations and events.

*Make a list of everything you need to do to prepare for a particular event. Think about the time it will take you to get each thing done.

*Calculate that time into the total amount of time you will need to leave on time. Include extra "cushion" time.

*Prepare the night before for your event (eg. review directions, prepare clothes, bag/purse).

C) Execute

*Leave on time for your event (with the extra "cushion" time calculated into the total time, it will take you to get to your destination)

*Practice Lombardi Time
 - Vince Lombardi, the legendary Green Bay Packers Coach, had a motto: always arrive 15 minutes before the appointed time. If you're on time, you're late!

Best wishes to you as you take your voice to the next level!

Much love,

Benita Charles Music

"Spreading love through music for your inspiration and entertainment!"

http://benitacharles.com

Blog: http://singingtipsbybcm.blogspot.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcmsings/

Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BornToSingSociety/

Email: singingtips.bcm@gmail.com

 

 https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/benita-charles/id200276662

Facebook Live:

https://youtu.be/auibkmJqgeg

 

 A special thanks to all my fans for your support!

The Singing Tips Live Show celebrates a successful year!

Benita Charles in New York City

The Singing Tips by Benita Charles Show celebrates a successful year!

On Sunday, April 9, 2017, NY-Vocalist Benita Charles celebrated one year of giving beginner singers tips to become professional singers with her live-internet based teaching series called Singing Tips Live by Benita Charles. The show airs on Saturday evenings at 8 pm on Facebook Live, Periscope and Instagram Live.

It started with an idea and a dream to share her wealth of knowledge of singing to help beginner singers become seasoned and professional while sharing their gifts to the world. While the show focuses on singing and show business, it has become so much more as it has inspired people of all walks of life to live their dreams and perfecting them.

The inspiration behind the show was inspired by the 2014 movie, Get On Up (The Story of James Brown), starring Chadwick Boseman and Dan Aykroyd. There was a particular scene in the movie where James wanted to take a more executive role in his career and his manager (portrayed by Dan Aykroyd) said, "This is show business. You take care of the show and I'll take care of the business!" James replied, "No, I will do both." That's exactly what he did. Not only was he the greatest entertainer, the hardest working man in show business and made great music, he was also a shrewd business man. 

The movie inspired Benita to design her show to have a "Show part" and a "Business Part."

"The Show" Part is divided into sections such as Your Talent, Your live Performance, Your Original Music and Your Image. The "Business" Part includes Your Marketing/Promotion, Your Gigs, Your Original Music and Your Business. There are 10 tips in each section. Recent topics discussed include but not limited to equipment every singer should own, performing live in front of an audience, performance tips, writing your own songs and how to find your personal style for your our image.

 In March 2017, the Tuskegee Television network started airing special 15-minute episodes of the Singing Tips by Benita Charles Show specifically designed for the network. The difference with the live show and the shows for the network is greater content. Watch on charter channel 181 in Tuskegee public access station, and on Youtube: Tuskegee Television Network Inc.

In a special broadcast on Saturday, April 9th, Benita Charles outlined how the show as impacted her life and her top 5 favorite episodes of the year as outlined below: 

3 Ways the Singing Tips Live Show has impacted NY-Vocalist, Benita Charles:
   
The show has brought the fire and desire back to Benita's life.

The has made Benita aware of the wealth of knowledge she has gained through her performance journey.

 The show has allowed Benita to help and inspire others to live their dreams.

Benita's top 5 favorite Singing Tips Live Shows of the Year:

1) The Expert Shows

Minister Angelia Williams Episode: Your Live Performance Section - Tip #19 (Always use a set list), aired September 10, 2016

Key Takeaway: Your gift is divine and you must share it because someone is waiting to hear it.

About Minister Angela Williams:

Minister Angela Williams is from Deerfield Beach, FL. By day is a Senior Director Customer Service Operations for a publishing company. In life, she ministers women and children.  She is the president of  the Women's Auxiliary for Florida East Coast Baptist Association. It's the largest association in Florida and the fourth largest in the nation. She is also the founder and director of A Girl and Her Pearls, a girl's ministry.

Azania NoahEpisode: Your Original Music section - Tip #22 (Songwriting - Choose your topic), aired October 29, 2016

Key Takeaway: Azania used her experiences and self-expression in her music to reach her audience and it worked.

About Azania Noah

Azania Noah is an international recording artist, seasoned live performer and the founder of Singer Elite community. She recently launched the Singer Elite Academy. For more information, visit: http://singerelite.com.

Roxie SeigleEpisode: Your Image section - Special Show on Style, aired March 5, 2017

Key Takeaway: Be yourself and express yourself through your personal style

About Roxie Seigle

Roxie Seigle has a love for all things beauty related. She is a licensed cosmetologist working as a freelance hair stylist and she owns her own salon in New York City. Roxie can be contacted through email at RSStylist@gmail.com


Nadine Dillon of D-Naz Jewelry
First Business sponsor of the style episode with Roxie Siegle: Nadine Dillon of D-Naz Jewelry, custom-jewelry (http://www.dnadzjewelry.com)
 

2) The Audition Show

Episode: aired March 4, 2017

Key Takeaway: Do it anyway, even afraid. Even if you think you're not enough, you have to complete the task.

3) The Prince Tribute Show

Episode: aired April 30, 2016

Key Takeaway: Prince lived his life like every artist should. He had a rich life with a wealth of original music/recordings, he was a phenomenal life performer and a shrewd business man.  He was the one of the first artist to release his music exclusively online through his own record label.
 

4) Protect Your Voice - Singing Tip #12 with teenagers as co-hosts

 Episode: Your Live Performance section - Tip #12: Project your voice when you sing, aired July 25, 2016

Key Takeaway: Make interruptions work for you. I made the teenagers my co-hosts.


5) Best singing tip of all time: Singing Tip #8 - Share Your Gift To the World

Episode: Your Talent section - Singing Tip #7 - Share Your Gift To The World

Key Takeaway: Share your gift to the world. There's someone who will be inspired by it

 "A special thanks to all of my fans for your support of my show! 
                        Thank you from the bottom of my heart! I am so grateful to you!!" -- Benita 

Celebrating the 1-year anniversary of The Singing Tips Live Show with Benita Charles

https://youtu.be/C2xGchJXCZ8

Happy Anniversary to The Singing Tips Live Show with Benita Charles

https://youtu.be/zRzbA_E9g-4

 

 

 https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/benita-charles/id200276662

Singing Tips by Benita Charles Music - Tip #36

 Benita Charles in New York City

Singing Tips by Benita Charles Music - Tip #36

Your Image: Your Behavior (Your Reputation)
Today, we discussed your reputation and ways to enhance it.  

Your Reputation are the beliefs and opinions that are generally held about someone or something.

3 ways to improve your reputation:

1) Dependability
-- Are you dependable? Do you show up when you say you will?
-- My grandfather use to say, "Your word is your bond!" Can people count on the words you say?

2) Punctuality
--Are you on time for your appointments and engagements? Do you value other's time? Do you allow for enough tine for your appointments?
--The famous coach Vince Lombardi was known for his punctuality. He coined the phase, Lombardi time (always arrive 15 minutes before the event). If you're your early, your on tine.  If you're on time, you're late.

3) Self-Discipline

--Self-Discipline is the ability to control and motivate yourself, stay on track and do what is right - even when you don't feel like it.
--Improve your self-discipline and you inprove your chances of success.

 

For this week's Singing Tips by Benita Charles Show, I received a free makeover at the Bluemercury Cosmetics Store in Tribeca, New York City by a lovely lady named Jennifer Byers. She was a representative of Bobby Brown Cosmetics. I was very pleased with the results!

Best wishes to you as you take your voice to the next level!

Much love,

Benita Charles Music

"Spreading love through music for your inspiration and entertainment!"

http://benitacharles.com

Blog: http://singingtipsbybcm.blogspot.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcmsings/

 Facebook Group: bit.ly/BornToSing17

Email: singingtips.bcm@gmail.com

 

 https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/benita-charles/id200276662 

Facebook Live:

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Singing Tips by Benita Charles Music - Tip #35

 Benita Charles in New York City

Singing Tips by Benita Charles Music - Tip #35

Your Image: Communications (Your Message)

Your message is your intentions of your music to the world. It's your legacy.


** I believe as artists, we are put here for a reason: to touch the world and make it a better place through our music. Each artist has a unique gift and message.

**Benita Charles' message: To make music and entertainment that ignite passion in people to change the world. How do they change the world? They change the world by being who they are meant to be (their greatest selves) and by sharing their gifts to the world. (This is why I encourage everyone in the broadcast to live their dreams.)


3 Ways to Communicate Your Message


Today, we discussed how to communicate your message (your legacy) to the world.  

1) Identify your Message

• You must be clear on your intention and what you'd like to communicate to your fans.
• My message: A singer who brings joy and inspire her audience to live their dreams.

 2) Incorporate your message in everything you do

• Whether you are singing, releasing new music or speaking to an audience, your message should always be in the forefront of what you do.
• For example, my original songs incorporate my message of inspiring my audience: We Can Make A Difference, The Freedom Song and Can I touch You There. My daily social media posts are always, inspirational, encouraging and empowering.

3) Share your message to the world

• Continually create new music, books, blogs, motivational speeches and music services.
  
• Write your autobiography (share your musical journey, experience and your life). You never know who will be changed by your life.

As Minister Angela Williams (special guest and expert on the Singing Tips with Benita Charles show #19, Oct 10, 2016) "Someone is waiting on your message!" -- Dr. Angela Williams. Your message just maybe what someone needs to hear to carry them through life!

Best wishes to you as you take your voice to the next level!

Much love,

Benita Charles Music

"Spreading love through music for your inspiration and entertainment!"

http://benitacharles.com
Blog: http://singingtipsbybcm.blogspot.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcmsings/
Email: singingtips.bcm@gmail.com

 https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/benita-charles/id200276662

Live on Facebook Live:

https://youtu.be/Kj9nlq4CScA

Singing Tips by Benita Charles Music - Tip #34

Benita Charles in New York City

Singing Tips by Benita Charles Music - Tip #34
Image: Effective Communications

Today, we discussed ways of improving communications for music artists.

As an artist, you will have to communicate to your fans, business executives, venue owners, managers, your family, etc.

3 Keys things you as an artist communicate to the world:

* Your message: Your intentions of your music to the world

* Your music: Your self-expression in music

* Your marketing/promotion: Your promotional materials

3 ways of communicating:

1) Verbal: Your voice/how you speak your words and sentences/your tone of voice
-- Be confident when you speak.

2) Non-Verbal: Your body language - how you sit, stand and your gestures.
-- Be open and approachable to your fans.

3) Written: Ensure your written material is grammatically correct and error free in your marketing materials and social media posts.
--Always use a professional editor with your written content.

3 Ways to Communicate effectively:

1) Speak clearly and look people in the eye when you communicate
-- During interviews and meet and greets with fans.
-- Watch your body language: your words should match your body language.

2) Be authentic/ Be yourself
-- Express yourself freely without being crude or rude
-- Speak with confidence

3) Practice speaking in a mirror
--This will help you see what you look like to others
-- This will help you see what you need to improve on


Best wishes to you as you take your voice to the next level!

Much love,

Benita Charles Music

"Spreading love through music for your inspiration and entertainment!"

http://benitacharles.com

Instagram, @bcmsings: https://www.instagram.com/bcmsings/

Blog: http://singingtipsbybcm.blogspot.com


Facebook Group, The Born To Sing Society: bit.ly/BornToSing17

Email: singingtips.bcm@gmail.com

 https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/benita-charles/id200276662

Live on Facebook Live

https://youtu.be/ySY_-Q5Js58